Well, it’s raining in Portland, but it’s great to be back with my family. I look forward to bringing them down South to meet all the good people that made Eric and I feel so welcome and cared for over the last week… and I do believe we’ll be timing that trip in winter, to conveniently skip some of this gloomy Northwestern weather.
And now for my List of Highlights.
(1.) Most amazing culinary experience
Dumplings, by Eric’s aunt Faye. I don’t know what they’re made of, and I definitely don’t know what the sauce was (it made the most decadent Alfredo in Little Italy look like watered-down rice milk), and it’s probably best if I don’t know. All I do know is that it brought me close to weeping tears of joy. And it was very probably the first time in that kitchen that a white boy did a George Jefferson dance in front of the stove.
(2.) Second most amazing culinary experience
Sonny’s BBQ in Chattanooga, which was recommended in reverent tones by Eric’s cousin Veronica. You can’t see it from the road, so someone needs to tell you about it. Unfortunately when we went, the place was closed, no cars parked anywhere… in fact we wondered if they’d gone out of business. But Eric’s Mom was on the phone, and she said, “Just Knock. He’s there.” We looked at each other and knocked. Sure enough, the door opened and a scent wafted out into the dirt parking lot, pulling us inside. Sonny was indeed there, in a BBQ-smeared apron, and he said ‘Whatcha want?” Well, I got what I wanted: sweet Southern BBQ that I had envisioned since before we left for the trip, and as Eric and I sat by the Tennessee River and pigged out, it was so good I had to offer some to the old men sitting at a picnic table nearby.
(3.) Most ridiculous moment
At the last show, at a coffee house in Durham NC, I gave into an instinct to do a fake harmonica solo in the middle of ‘Mornin’ Train’. Some people thought it was a real harmonica for a minute, but it devolved quickly into a scream-fest tempered only by the wah-wah effect of my hand over my mouth. I’m starting to feel I owe these moments to Eric, where his very ideas of propriety and dignity are tested and new (low) benchmarks are set. Of course there was a real blues aficionado in the house, a radio DJ, who still managed to like our set but was visibly relieved when I told him that I’d be bringing a real harp next time.
(4.) Brush with the law
Eric did most of the driving on the tour because he knows his way around the region. All was going well. Then I took the wheel for all of FIVE MINUTES and we were pulled over by NC’s finest. “What’s the trouble, officer?” “Tail gating, sir.” Tail gating?? The truck in front of me was going about 35 in a 60mph zone, and I went around him as soon as I mustered up the courage to do it in front of a cop. Oops. So anyways…
(5.) Sound system trauma
Nothing too noteworthy on this trip; nothing like our gig in Texas where a component burned out and they had to evacuate the whole building in the middle of our show. The worst thing on this trip was when I broke a string in the very first song of our Nashville gig, with no backup guitar, and had to play with no low notes in front of 500 people for 40 minutes. But sound-wise, we really didn’t have ‘one for the books’ on this tour.
(6.) Worst decision
No backup guitar. And no electric guitar.
(7.) Best decision
Staying in Bakewell between shows whenever possible, where we ate home-cooked food and walked down country roads at night.
(8.) Unexpected highlight
Eric bought an accordion. An accordion!!!
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